728x90 AdSpace

Latest News
Tuesday, 17 November 2015

Reasons For Classifying Guys As being The Same

Ladies are always of the opinion that all guys are the same. But not minding this assumption, they still search for guys to take as partners for life.

Both ladies and guys are endowed with qualities (good and bad).

Ladies tend to say more about the bad qualities exhibited by some guys. Hence, drawing the generalisation that all guys are the same. What are the bad qualities of guys that gives this assertion its characteristics of being true?

Although I am not a lady, I have always been opportuned to chat with different types of ladies (High School Graduates, those in the College, Graduates from Colleges). They are at all times ready to respond to my series of questions.

I have spent so much time on asking questions, doing research and coming up with two (2) basic qualities in guys that ladies feel it's bad.


This is the characteristics of being disloyal and practicing infidelity. This is popularly referred to as cheating in a relationship. I recall discussing with a lady on relationship issues and she made a statement saying "guys are cheaters in nature". The truth is that both genders can be unfaithful at some points in their lifetime.

A lady's internal state of being and her involuntary physiological response to some stimulated feelings can also cause unfaithfulness.

Therefore, unfaithfulness is the quality seen in both parties. If you think that guys are unfaithful because of sexual infidelity, have it in mind that ladies too are unfaithful emotionally.

Don't wait for emotional infidelity to start hitting you up, rather accept that guy the way he is, and start looking for ways to build a relationship that is based on trust.


This is seen as a lack of honesty in a guy. Ladies are of the views that guys are disposed to lie, cheat and deceive. A lady once quoted a bible verse saying "the good man is perished out of the earth and there is none upright among men, they all lie in wait for blood (Micah 7:2)".

This happened in the old testament. The blood of Christ have been used to liberate men from such level to a greater level of honesty.

Even if the guy that is seen around you is dishonest, let it not be a barrier in your relationship with him. You should act like a catalyst to change him from his present way of life. I bet you will enjoy him once changed.

Would you remain single because you think that all guys are the same, and they may hurt you?

Joseph Etim

Joseph Etim (B. Tech) is a blogger, mobile web developer and a tutor with a zeal for positive effects.

Website: Pepetimsblog

  • Blogger Comments
  • Facebook Comments


Post a Comment

Disclaimer: The opinions conveyed in the comments section on this blog are those of the comment writers alone and it does not attest or portray the views of Joseph Etim.

Item Reviewed: Reasons For Classifying Guys As being The Same Rating: 5 Reviewed By: Joseph Etim